Love to many people is the thing that matters the most but how can we say we love others if we don't know what love really is and how can we love others if we don't love our self. The truth is we all love with conditions and love with condition is bad the true love is when we can love the people that hate us the people that hurt us and love people not matter what there flaws are. love with out condition is the real love like the perfect love god has for us no matter if we mess up a million time he loves us no matter if were fat ugly or anything else he still loves us. The only way to learn how to truly how to love is by having god in our life not caring if other people hate us or not. So don't say I love you to someone because you will be lying how can you give someone some thing you don't have for your self or don't even know what love truly is.